S3E3: Turn Down the Volume: Boundaries, Stress and the Architecture of Recovery
Episode Description
Turn Down the Alarm, Tune Into the Signal.
That feeling of stress isn't a sign you're broken—it's your body's brilliant security system asking for your attention. It's a powerful signal that, when truly heard, guides you directly to deeper self-care and genuine resilience.
That nagging feeling of stress? It's simply your nervous system alarm stuck on full blast. It isn't a failure; it’s a profound signal gently inviting you to tend to your deepest needs.
Step in with us to embrace the art of regulation, not resistance. Lindsey shares her comforting guidance on how to actively turn down that volume and truly tune into your body’s quiet wisdom. You'll learn to craft healthy boundaries—those kind, firm limits that protect your precious energy and bring immediate calm to your system.
Ready to find your ease and greater inner awareness? Tune in for the journey 🧘♀️
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You’ll Hear
Understanding stress as a natural security system rather than a flaw
How to set and maintain healthy boundaries for personal well-being
Techniques for aligning self-care practices with actual needs
The importance of listening to your body's cues to prevent burnout
Strategies for transforming stress into a learning opportunity
Key Takeaways
Stress is a natural part of our body's security system, designed to alert and protect us
Healthy boundaries are essential for sustainable compassion and personal well-being
Self-care should be aligned with actual needs rather than habitual practices
Listening to your body's cues can help prevent burnout and promote resilience
Awareness and agency are crucial in managing stress effectively
Affirmations
I honor my body's security system. It's trying to keep me safe
I can turn down the volume and still trust the signal
My boundaries protect my peace and preserve my presence
I'm learning to listen before I break
Your Wellbeing Warrior Homework
Grab Your Tool: Get a piece of paper (yes, even the back of a bill works!) and something to write with.
Scan and Listen: Sit still for a moment and scan your body and mind. Tune into any areas that are communicating tension or stress. (If needed, re-do the "turning down the volume" body scan from the episode).
Identify the Stress Signal: Note one to three specific areas of your body or brain where stress is presenting (e.g., tight shoulders, racing thoughts, clenching jaw). Optional: Draw a stick figure and circle these areas.
Open Your Schedule/Self-Care Stash: Look at your calendar or check your drawer for hoarded self-care gift cards/vouchers.
Align Your Care: Match one of the presenting stress needs from your notes to an upcoming self-care appointment or activity.
If you have a match: Pat yourself on the back!
If your scheduled care doesn't align with your cue: Add a new, responsive Self-Care Act to your calendar within the next seven days that directly addresses the need you identified (e.g., if your shoulders are tight, schedule 15 minutes of dedicated stretching).
Reflect and Commit: Use these prompts to give yourself permission to be responsive to your recovery requests:
What does my body need today that my mind might be ignoring?
How can I align my care to the actual need, not just my habits of self-care?
What would it look like to create a rhythm of rest that feels like home?